My pro-life brother found out his wife had an abortion before they dated...wdyt?
They've been married for a year, dated for 2 before that. Two days ago she told him she had an abortion when she was 16 because "the condom broke" and she didn't want to have a baby. She told him it totally casually, and said she doesn't regret it at all.
My brother is very pro-life. He doesn't talk about it much, but he's very passionate about it. He said he sees her differently now, and that it wouldn't be as bad if she was sorry or regretted it, but he's disgusted with how she feels about it and talks about it.
He was coming up here to go ice fishing with my DH last night, so he broke down and told me all this. He said he doesn't know how to face her or what to do. When he said he thought they should talk to a pastor about this, she laughed (she's not religious, he's not strict but considers himself Christian) and said "what for?".
Do you think she should have told him before they got married? I'm at a loss about what to say to him. Would you recommend he ask her again about counselling?