do you think is good to be super independent of yourself or with your partner or depend on your friends or family for help when you need it? yes no maybe??
so seeing my family and DH"s makes me think are we the only weirdos that are really independent ? my sil just moved to the same city as us just 3 days ago, she came with her mother and they already found a house to live in and they are not gonna have to pay any bills because the family is gonna help them in everything (im pretty sure they are also gonna help them with a car too). MY SIL has four kids and its in perfect health to work but its not going to work, instead FIL advice them to apply for welfare and with the money she gets for her children from child support and social security from her 2 other kids shes not gonna need to work/.
i also have other in laws that each time they don't have money and are broke they have to be asking my mother in law or relatives for money, in fact there's 1 who's married and has 4 kids and expecting another child and yet they don't have their own house, no car no nothing just because of bad choices. the heck i cant believe how moving to this state it took me 5 years me and DH to finally be in a stable place with our kids with out no ones help and by that means NOBODY NO FAMILY NO FRIENDS NOT NO ONE.
I CANT BELIEVE HOW PEOPLE CAN HAVE NO SHAME IN ASKING EVERYONE FOR HELP IN EVERY SINGLE SHIT AND BAMMM THEY GET EVERYTHING FAST IN THE PALM OF THEIR HANDS.
MY QUESTION IS ARE YOU REALLY INDEPENDENT? OR DO YOU DEPEND ON PEOPLE TO HELP YOU WHEN EVER YOU NEED HELP OR SOMETHING ELSE????? AND IF YOU DO PLEASE EXPLAIN WHY???