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Is it an affair!!!!!!!

Anonymous
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My husband is friends with a woman online that we was kind of dating when we first got together. Well thanks to fb they are talking again. He delete s there conversations in his messenger. I have told him bothers me and he said she is going through a lot and needs someone to talk too.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:54 PM
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KylesWifey
by Gold Member on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:56 PM
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If you have to delete your conversations and hide them from your so then it is an affair.
brettsmomma
by ~Tammie~ on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:57 PM

Why would he have to delete it?

We have a general rule in our house. If it bothers the other person hen get rid of it. this is especially true for all social media.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:58 PM
So what if she's going through a lot!? It's not his job to help her or listen to her vent! If you have any conversation with the opposite sex that you have to hide then it is cheating. Have you said anything to that woman?
CorpCityGrl
by Platinum Member on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:58 PM
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If you have to delete the conversation and hide it from your SO, then there is something going on that shouldn't be going on.  Even if she is going through some stuff, he should not have to delete anything.  He is not obligated to be her sounding board and he needs to know that and get his priorities straight.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:58 PM
That's what I said too he said what's going on with her is not my business. Your my husband so it makes it my business.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:59 PM
I don't know if it's an affair but it's definitely shady.
brookelynn1201
by on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:59 PM
Uh he's obviously guilty if something
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 3, 2014 at 2:59 PM
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Yep, if you have to delete it, then it's wrong. It doesn't matter if it is your business, anything you need to hide from your spouse is probably cheating.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 3, 2014 at 3:00 PM
I have talked to her and she was super nasty with me.
strongforthem
by Platinum Member on Mar. 3, 2014 at 3:01 PM
Good luck with that. This will go nowhere good.
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