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He CHEATED!

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Do you believe a marriage or relationship can be saved after one partner, or both cheat?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 5, 2014 at 9:49 AM
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Peaceful.chaos
by Ruby Member on Mar. 5, 2014 at 9:54 AM
No.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 5, 2014 at 9:55 AM

Yes

JackieGirl007
by Ruby Member on Mar. 5, 2014 at 9:56 AM

 I think so, but I don't think MY marriage could. I've seen others do it though and I never understand how one could forgive or work through that, or even why. I'm the kind of person who never forgets and once you break the trust, you will not get it back.

kerriebear88
by Silver Member on Mar. 5, 2014 at 9:56 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

No once a cheater always a cheater.

nanny1918
by Silver Member on Mar. 5, 2014 at 9:56 AM
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How nice of him to tell you ahead of time, he sounds like a peach.

Quoting Anonymous:

My husband is talking with other women - and has told me he's about to cheat. I'm getting finances in order to leave his ass. 

thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Mar. 5, 2014 at 9:57 AM

Yes, if they both want it to.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 5, 2014 at 9:57 AM
Sometimes.

Depends on the couple.

I strongly believe ours could.
TracyBands
by Member on Mar. 5, 2014 at 10:02 AM
Ah NO way!!!
My ex BF cheated on me several times in our 5yr relationship, I gave it a chance and I couldn't trust him. Once a cheat, always a cheat!
I've made it very clear to my Hubby, if it happens, I'm gone, for good!!!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 5, 2014 at 10:03 AM
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Sorry to go anonymous.....yes you can....and our marriage is an example of that.  I cheated 10 years ago after 5 years of marriage. My hubby found out and after a few tears and talking we have moved on and it's been very good for the last ten years....I haven't cheated since and won't again....we are stronger today because we grew... what doesn't kill you, will make you stronger...and it has in our marriage.  But I understand that that isn't true for everyone....

Mommyscookie
by on Mar. 5, 2014 at 10:05 AM
Atleast he told her in advance haha

Quoting nanny1918: How nice of him to tell you ahead of time, he sounds like a peach.

Quoting Anonymous:

My husband is talking with other women - and has told me he's about to cheat. I'm getting finances in order to leave his ass. 

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