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Update: DH kicked out our son:(

Anonymous
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Update:
This morning was tough. I think the uncertainty was the worst part. DS wanted to go to school so I let him.

I went by the house and say down worth my husband to talk. I basically explained that he was out of line. 100% out of line. I explained that while I'm committed to our marriage I will not sit by and alienate our child for something I believe is out of his control.

I asked why he reacted like that since we had always suspected it and he said he just didn't want to believe it.

I told him that our son will continue to live in our home and will have my support financially through college like we had always planned. If he doesn't like it fine, he doesn't have to live here.

I don't want a divorce. I don't want my family to hurt or be broken. DH agreed to see a family therapist so that's a start.

I need to add that I am a Christian. I was married in a church by an ordained minister who happens to be my father. The passages in Leviticus that most Christians reference when it comes to homosexuality IMO is out dated because of the coming of Jesus in the new testament. Jesus came to absorb our sins because we are incapable of perfection. I will not sit by and judge my son for something he is unable to control.


OP:
DS admitted today that he is gay and DH told him to get the fuck out.

I'm so pissed, we suspected this and I had know idea DH would react like this.

I'm heartbroken. So DS and I are staying at a hotel tonight and until DH comes to his senses.

I just don't understand why DH reacted like this.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:54 PM
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HousewifeNina
by Platinum Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:54 PM
How old is he?
AnHpuresugar
by Ruby Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:55 PM
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Because he is a bigot. You had no clue?
Hanab818
by Ruby Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:55 PM
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Yea, dh would be the one leaving if he said that. Hes an ass, sorry.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:55 PM
Is it possible that he hates gay people?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:55 PM

how old is your son?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:55 PM
Why did you let him?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:56 PM
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Quoting HousewifeNina: How old is he?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:56 PM
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Quoting Anonymous:

how old is your son?

Sparklepants747
by Queen Annie on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:57 PM
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How heartbreaking. Good job protecting your kid! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 6, 2014 at 8:57 PM
We've been married 19 years. I had no clue he was like this.

Quoting Anonymous: Is it possible that he hates gay people?
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