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SAHM's Are Glorified Servants and Prostitutes!

Seriously, some IN REAL LIFE (not in CafeMom land) said this to my sister-in-law and it honestly made me laugh. 

My sister-in-law stays at home because that is what is best for herself and her family. I work because that is what is best for me and my family. I love my SIL very much but her family is all kinds of crazy. Saturday, she invited me to a "mother's lunch" at McDonalds. Her two sisters and my two sisters were there as well, with their kids. We talked while the kids played. My SIL is 12 weeks pregnant with her third baby. Anyway, her oldest sister works too and she is one of these that thinks she is better than every SAHM because [insert lame excuse here]. Somehow, we got into a conversation about working or staying home. I'm not exactly sure how that happened. You know how conversations just tend to drift. This woman actually told SIL that, as a SAHM, she was a glorified servant and prostitute. She was sleeping with a man and doing housework in exchange for a home, bills paid, and food for herself and her children.

Honestly, isn't that one of the stupidest thing you've ever heard? Needless to say, she was asked to leave. I have heard that on CafeMom but I have NEVER heard a woman say that in real life. Wtf is wrong with some people? What a bitch!


by on Mar. 7, 2014 at 5:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:21 PM

Glorified servant perhaps but not a prostitute.........I too am a sahm, but I don't sleep with random men for money, and my dh doesn't hand me money everytime we have sex.......so she may have a point but she is far from right.

Quoting Anonymous: She has a point. And i am a sahm. But she is a bitch for saying it. She should have kept her mouth shut.


Miranda1127
by Platinum Member on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:22 PM

 I would have laughed at her and said 'Do what you're good at. I'm sorry your not good enough in bed and home to live my life.'

Bigmetalchicken
by Ruby Member on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:24 PM
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That is nuts. Men don't pay the prostitutes for the sex. They pay them to leave afterward. If i tried to walk out, my husband would throw me over his shoulder and drag me back in. lol

Nee86
by Silver Member on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:25 PM
I think I would have needed help picking my jaw up off the floor! Seriously that "man" is her husband and the father of her children. He has a responsibility to provide for the children he helped create. As far as her being a sahm, if that's what works for her family then that's what works. But she is not a servant or prostitute.
Angelicembrace
by The Dorkfish on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:27 PM

sidesplittinglaughterNailed it!

Quoting MamaJess9: Someone will be here to tell you she's right in 10...9...8...7...



Nee86
by Silver Member on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:27 PM
Lmao that's a GREAT come back! I think someone would have had ruffled feathers if that was said! Love it!

Quoting Miranda1127:

 I would have laughed at her and said 'Do what you're good at. I'm sorry your not good enough in bed and home to live my life.'

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:29 PM
Fine. I feel that you, and most of the crap you spew on this site is uneducated, or at the very least ignorant. I feel that you have an entitled spoiled attitude and that you contribute nothing productive in any conversation.

But that's just my perspective and you have no right to call me stupid or rude or tactless. See how that doesn't work? Because I bet you thought that the above statements were mean and stupid.

Quoting briellesmomma: Why is it where someone says something you ladies don't like they're a bitch but it's okay for you to call them stupid over something they feel?

If she feels that way, let her. Doesn't make her stupid. She just has a different perspective.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:30 PM

Well I'm a SINGLE stay at homer, so nope, not me.

briellesmomma
by Velvet on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:33 PM
Actually, I don't care. You're an anonymous nobody who can't even use your sn to insult me. You also have a right to your opinion.

Quoting Anonymous: Fine. I feel that you, and most of the crap you spew on this site is uneducated, or at the very least ignorant. I feel that you have an entitled spoiled attitude and that you contribute nothing productive in any conversation.

But that's just my perspective and you have no right to call me stupid or rude or tactless. See how that doesn't work? Because I bet you thought that the above statements were mean and stupid.

Quoting briellesmomma: Why is it where someone says something you ladies don't like they're a bitch but it's okay for you to call them stupid over something they feel?

If she feels that way, let her. Doesn't make her stupid. She just has a different perspective.
brysonsmommy_10
by Silver Member on Mar. 7, 2014 at 6:33 PM
Then my dh is definitely getting the short end of the stick! I'm 34 weeks pregnant and miserable, so the poor man may get a quickie once a week...on a good week! Luckily for him, I can't stand the house to get nasty so it is at least presentable, but it's not as spotless as he's used to.
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