I'm very appreciative of my so for working to provide for our family. But I'm completely annoyed with the "I can fall asleep whenever I want too". I mean why the hell is he so special that he gets to go to bed early. I get up just as early as he does to get the kids ready for school or earlier for a morning quickie. I cater to everyone including him all day. To include cleaning up messes. Then I stay up hours later to make sure all the kids are asleep & to pick up so no one trips over anything if they wake in the middle of the night. To include him since he falls asleep on the couch. So I make sure he won't step on anything when he does come to bed. But it seems like no matter what I do I don't get the privileges of sleeping in or going to bed early unless all the kids are asleep. Does anyone else's so do this? If so how do you handle it?