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less of a mom if you only have 1 child

Anonymous
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I don't think i can have another child due to medical reasons, not infertility, my body not tolerating pregnancy. It's not 100% yet, still getting doctor's opinions. Our son is 2. People keep having 2nd babies and asking us. (We're mid/late 20s) when the next one is coming. What do I say? I'm on meds now where i'm not even allowed to get pregnant. But my medical condition is awkward and i dont' want to explain it to all and sundry.

It feels like everyone keeps pressuring me to get pregnant. And the thing is we would LOVE to be pregnant. We always wanted a big family. So it hurts a LOT when people ask and assume if we don't have another one it's b/c we don't want another one. And I don't know what to say w/o spilling my medical history. 

ADVICE PLEASE!!!

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:45 PM
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SadiasMomma
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:46 PM
Smile and nod. No one's business
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:46 PM

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:46 PM

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:46 PM

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:46 PM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:47 PM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:47 PM

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:47 PM
No.

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:48 PM

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 7, 2014 at 10:48 PM

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