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Online dating question

Anonymous
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So I am new to online dating. With that said, I've been talking to this guy on match.com and we seem to have a connection. We haven't met up in person yet, but we have been talking every day. Yesterday night he didn't txt me back, and today he tells me that last night he went out on a date with a girl from the website. He told me there wasn't a connection with her though. I know we aren't serious or anything like that, but I just feel weird that he actually told me he went on a date with someone else. I feel like that is something you don't tell your other potential dates. Maybe I am overreacting, but my ex husband cheated on me, so it's just bringing me back to that feeling a little bit. Should I bring this up with him? Or am I overreacting? Any advice would be appreciated. 

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 8, 2014 at 9:55 AM
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Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Mar. 8, 2014 at 9:57 AM
You're overreacting. Don't tell him you're uncomfortable. You haven't even met in person yet. It's WAY to early in the relationship for you to get possessive.
thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 9:57 AM

I think its great that he is being honest and he doesnt owe exclusivity to someone he is only chatting with online anyway.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 8, 2014 at 9:58 AM
OMG. He needs to run. Stage 5 clinger here.
imthatgirl0607
by Ruby Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 9:59 AM

Yes you're over reacting. You aren't even dating him. 

Beenhereforever
by Gold Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 9:59 AM
You need to be happy he was honest with you.
bluebunnybabe
by Ruby Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:00 AM
You're overreacting. He's being honest.
owl0210
by Emerald Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:00 AM
I met my fiance on Match and we would share our crazy dating stories but when I would correspond with someone I wouldn't discuss with them if I was going on dates while talking to them.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:00 AM

Ha ha ha...you're sooo funny!! eye rolling

Quoting Anonymous: OMG. He needs to run. Stage 5 clinger here.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:01 AM

I don't think online dating is the right option for you...

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:01 AM

I know... I'm just so new to this. I don't know proper online dating etiquette lol 

Quoting imthatgirl0607:

Yes you're over reacting. You aren't even dating him. 


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