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Dh refuses to get a vasectomy!

Anonymous
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My dh says it is only fair if we both get fixed. I've never heard of this. Since when do both spouses have to be fixed so they can't have children? What's the big deal? We both agree we are done having children. Basically he says it would be weird if I was still able to have children and he could not.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:02 PM
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Amybelle
by Ruby Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:03 PM

Oh well

Sparklepants747
by Queen Annie on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:03 PM
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I kinda agree with him. Fair's fair. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:04 PM
That's weird. My husband had his last year.
momoftwogirl55
by Platinum Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:04 PM
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It's more risky for you.
JackieGirl007
by on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:05 PM

Lol that is odd.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:05 PM
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It's not fair. It's outpatient surgery for him and he needs very minimal time off work. It's major surgery for her.

Not to mention most insurance companies won't cover both of them so cost is a factor.

Quoting Sparklepants747:

I kinda agree with him. Fair's fair. 

MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:05 PM

 So what are you going to do?

julainepw
by Bronze Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:05 PM
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Yeah I don't get that. For me I had to birth our child and possible future children dude can at least get snipped.
Texor
by Platinum Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:06 PM
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Okay, well, first neither of you are dogs, so you're not getting fixed. 

Second, does he know what a tubal entails compared to a vasectomy? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 8, 2014 at 3:06 PM
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Ok. He doesn't want one. You don't control his penis.
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