Does she? My 23 yr old dd has a 31yr old boyfriend. They have a two and three yr old. He doesn't work or help at all with the kids. He plays video games all day . She waits on him hand and foot. He takes her money for cigs etc..... She's on disability. He's controlling, screams andyells all. Lle time. I'd love it if he moved far, far away and never came back. I really don't think she loves him at all but is afraid what he'd do if she dumped him.