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why does she love him or.........

Anonymous
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Does she? My 23 yr old dd has a 31yr old boyfriend. They have a two and three yr old. He doesn't work or help at all with the kids. He plays video games all day . She waits on him hand and foot. He takes her money for cigs etc..... She's on disability. He's controlling, screams andyells all. Lle time. I'd love it if he moved far, far away and never came back. I really don't think she loves him at all but is afraid what he'd do if she dumped him.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:03 PM
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curvygurl1912
by Renee on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:05 PM

That is so sad. I would kidnap my dd and lock her in  my house. I know you can't really do that but, I would want to if it was my dd

bensmommy1
by Silver Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:06 PM
Sounds like she has low self esteem :(
SwitchbladeMama
by Bronze Member on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:07 PM

It's very likely self-esteem issues.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:07 PM
I wish her dad was around. I'm sure he'd set things straight
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:09 PM
It seems like that's how a lot of "men" are these days...

Maybe she just doesn't want to be alone and fears she can't do better?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2014 at 10:13 PM
When she first got with him, she told me he told her he was saying if she ever left he'd do this or that and now he holds the babies over her head. Like he'd get them.

Quoting Anonymous: It seems like that's how a lot of "men" are these days...

Maybe she just doesn't want to be alone and fears she can't do better?
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