Teenager question/advice post (no its not a teen pregnancy post)
OK some of you know I adopted my neice... Rather than bore everyone with the full story Ill reply as requested.
Anyhow, she has real issues making better decisions. She is sixteen will be seventeen in April. She is failing to improve her grade in English and had eight absences last semester. I am not too happy about this.
I know she is trying but I really feel she is not ready (mature wise) she still acts like a jr high kid.
Anyhow she is seeing this boy Michael she met at the mall. This boy is nineteen graduated last year. I am a little curious why this boy is wanting to date my neice. Some things I am uncomfortable about is the fact he wants her to meet with him PLACES. He did come over once and that did not go well. Instead my neice sixteen going on seventeen (one weeks ago) was pretty much all over him dry humping him wrapping her legs around him and pressing herself up on him.
We sent him home. And we have not been very supportive of her going out with Michael since. She is frustrated because he keeps asking her to "hang out" and we tell her no. Michael is allowed to come over but the second I see her acting inappropriately he goes home.
The thing is I think this boy only wants to get it on with her. She is so desperate and horridly sexually active that she will do anything to keep a boy around...
Talk to me mommas.... Because as much as I know she is growing I am just baffled at her lack of maturity and what to do about this boy.
She is on birth control, please dont bother if you are just going to recommend birth control because that isnt the advice I am looking for.