"Dear wives/girlfriends who were cheated onâ€”a reality check: His mistress isn't crazy or stalking him. She isn't "reading in" to his behavior, and she's [probably] not a psycho. She was TOLD THINGS by your husband/boyfriend... things he either said to get her into bed, or truly meant from his heart... and now he's trying to smooth things over by shifting all the blame for his affair to the other woman. If you want to be pissed at her... I get it. But let's get something straight: She didn't STEAL him. No one can be "stolen". He CHOSE to pursue her. Does that make her right? No... but she's not your problem; HE is. So, instead of wasting energy blaming another woman who was lied to (just like you were)... you might place the blame where it really belongs Â» at your man's feet."
If he cheated, place the blame where the blame is due. So many of you females come here speaking of how crazy your current SO's ex was. Did it ever cross your mind that you're just as crazy for staying with and believing the lies? And before any one tries it, I saw this on FB and decided to share because there sure are a lot of crazy ex-wives or "babymamas", but none of them are on Cafemom.....that shit cray.