My ex husband is trying to make our daughter choose between him and his wife and me and dh . He says you treat me and wife like crap when you talk to your mom and her husband . She is 18 and i feel she shouldn't have to feel bad for loving any of the 4 of us . We have a court case for my son as well because they do the same to him and he's 10 . We have 50/50 with our son and its been a nightmare .