There are so many post about problems with the ex and dealing with kids and blah, blah, blah.
I understand that sometimes a marriage will not work out but damn...it seems like hardly anyone now a days even tries to make one work. Having a kid and then separating is one of the worst things that can happen for a child. It's almost selfish....again...I understand not ALL work out....my mom had to leave my dad bc he was extremely abusive.
People need to be careful and think clearly before deciding to settle and start a family.....isn't that the idea? To START a family? So why are so many breaking them up?
Becoming a mother has made me into the woman I have always wanted to be.