My ex is very against pageants and would never even consider letting DD do them. The only pageants he had ever saw was on Toddlers and Tiaras, which makes pageant moms look bad in the first place. Since we split, I decided to put DD in pageants with her friend who does pageants. I pay for it all, he hasn't even paid CS since we split so it's not like he is being forced to pay for it.
He wants it in the custody agreement that we must agree on all activities that DD participates in, and since he doesn't agree with gymnastics or pageants, he wants it to be court ordered that she can't participate.
She loves them, only does all natural pageants. No fake hair, teeth, make up, etc.
We celebrate ANY award even if its just a participation award, we don't make her believe that she lost or she didn't do good since she didn't make a title or supreme, etc...
I know alot of CM is anti-pageants, which is why I never post about them but would the judge actually force her to stop since she does like them, just because he doesn't agree with them?