I keep seeing all these posts about crazy Ex's and BM and crap.
It makes me realize I lucked out in the Ex Dept.
We get along, he can call me or the kids anytime he wants, If the kids have a Dr appt, he wants to be there and has no issues with me being there, he takes the kids if I have to work and he is off even though they are my days and on his days if he has a appt or somthing I will take the kids, He dosn't bitch about CS, He buys the kids clothes and school things if they need them and doesn't say a word. we both went in to H&R block and figured out how to do the taxes so that we both ended up with about the same ammount of refund etc.
My son was told to stand up in class and tell about somthing that is going on in his life, his teacher said that he told the class "my mom and dad got a divorce, but that's okay sometimes that happens. We live with mom and Big Pa (my dad) now and visit daddy when he is not working or when momma works. Momma and Daddy both still love us!!" I am so happy that my kids are okay.