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He's Hurting My Feelings And He Is So Oblivious!!

Anonymous
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My boyfriend has a sick sense of humor.

He does little things he knows irks me, and I can't help myself, I get so upset when he does it.

He will see a girl in real life, picture, movie anything and will say "Oh she's fucking hott! You can come sit on my face baby!" And it pisses me off!

And when I throw a shoe or something at his feet he will laugh and say "you know I'm only messing around!" or "I'm only kidding you know that!" and "I'm just doing it to make you mad!"

:(

I hate this!

I tell him he hurts me all the time, and it hurts me more than upsets me.

I don't now what else to say to him.

I don't do that to him, but when I do joke, he gets all defensive like when I do, and he never calms down.

He says that I shouldn't say stuff like that.

.....

Like I'm not allowed to joke but HE is.

He jokes 99% of the time and I rarely hurt/joke around with him.

I don't do things to piss him off all the time, but he does it to me.

..
???

What can I say to him to get him to stop!

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:32 PM
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Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:34 PM
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Guess what? He won't. So you need thicker skin or a new boyfriend
hautemama83
by Emerald Member on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:34 PM
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Ok two things

1- he's not joking

2- he's clearly an immature douche
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:34 PM
Your insecurities aren't his problem grow up
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:35 PM
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He's an insensitive prick. Do you want that forever?
harpsichord
by Platinum Member on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:35 PM
What a piece of shit boyfriend you have.
Bubsy
by Silver Member on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:36 PM
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:( it sounds like he doesn't respect you the way he should at all. My only suggestion would be to tell him that it's a deal breaker for you, and that if he can't respect you or your wishes on the matter then it's going to destroy your relationship. If he is truly invested in you then he will stop, and if not then you deserve better anyway. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:36 PM
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I personally would get rid of this guy since there is no compassion or respect coming from him.  You need both for a healthy relationship.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:38 PM
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A very important part of a working relationship is you both have a sense of humor the other understands. This sounds like you two do not.

I don't know about you but I would not put myself through that. If he wants to work on it, great, if not I think it's best you move on.

Being able to laugh with eachother and not at eachother is very important.
curvygurl1912
by Renee on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:39 PM
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What he is doing is beyond joking and deliberately objectifying women to hurt you. It is disrespectful of him but he will continue to do it as long as you put up with it. People treat you the way you let them. Have some respect for yourself and don't settle for an immature manchild, momma

quinnsmom715
by Donna on Mar. 10, 2014 at 10:40 PM

if hes deliberatly upsetting you,he is a giant douchelord and you need to get rid of him..he is obviously immature and needs to grow up..

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