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Anonymous
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If your babys father and you were still together and you had to move because your mom kicked you out, would you still be with the father if he didnt move in with you and stayed at his parents instead but still would come see you everyday but just doesnt pay rent or anything since hes still living in his house?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:47 PM
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Idntreallycare
by on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:48 PM

doesn't sound like this has to be a teen mom thing, I've seen women on here in their 20s or older who are living on their own and the bf isn't paying bills for them. 

I don't see why he HAS to move in or pay rent, but he should be supporting his child in some way

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:49 PM
Do you think these type of relationships can work? Can last?

Quoting Idntreallycare:

doesn't sound like this has to be a teen mom thing, I've seen women on here in their 20s or older who are living on their own and the bf isn't paying bills for them. 

I don't see why he HAS to move in or pay rent, but he should be supporting his child in some way

usmcwifey11
by on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:50 PM
Hold on. Let me try to understand this.

Would I still be with him if we lived separately but he still visited everyday?

Is that what you're asking?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:51 PM
Yes.

Quoting usmcwifey11: Hold on. Let me try to understand this.

Would I still be with him if we lived separately but he still visited everyday?

Is that what you're asking?
Idntreallycare
by on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:51 PM

plenty of people date and don't live together, maybe some day he will want to live with you and help pay bills, but today is not that day. Since no relationship is 100% going to last forever, don't plan on spending forever with him.... get your shit together to make sure you can support yourself until he gives you some sort of true committment.

Quoting Anonymous: Do you think these type of relationships can work? Can last?
Quoting Idntreallycare:

doesn't sound like this has to be a teen mom thing, I've seen women on here in their 20s or older who are living on their own and the bf isn't paying bills for them. 

I don't see why he HAS to move in or pay rent, but he should be supporting his child in some way


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:52 PM
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Wow. Now that is a run on sentence.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:52 PM
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Like ya I would stay with him but only if he like still took me to prom! 

usmcwifey11
by on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:52 PM
Ok. Then yes. Well, why doesn't he want to move in? Does he feel he's not ready for that step or will he never be ready for that step?

Quoting Anonymous: Yes.

Quoting usmcwifey11: Hold on. Let me try to understand this.

Would I still be with him if we lived separately but he still visited everyday?

Is that what you're asking?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:52 PM
No, what a loser! I would probably give him some time, but if he didn't step up, I wouldn't be with him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:53 PM
He is not required to live with you or pay your bills in order to be a good boyfriend or a good father. He only needs to provide for his child.
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