Mil and fil will be visiting from out out next week. MIL called to say that she knows I BF my 5 week old but FIL is uncomfortable with that so when they are here "it would be best" for me to go to my room to do that. I told her that I use a cover when people are here but my baby feeds close to half the time and since we also have a 3 year old, I cant be shut in my room half the day while DH is at work which Is most of the days they will be here (my in laws are the kind of grandparents who if you ask them to watch a kid, they will watch the kid get into everything and not even bother to clean up the mess so asking them to watch her isn't an option). Mil got mad and told me that I am being rude and should be accomidating to FILs feelings. I told her I am, to the best of my abilities accomidating FIL by using a cover but confining me to one room in my home is unreasonable. I also pointed out that when you stay in someone's home, you can't demand that everything is done your way. She called me a bitch and said that if I won't change my mind they aren't coming. DH agrees with me and called his mom to say that he wants to see them but she is going to have to call and apologize to me for calling me a bitch and respect the fact that she can't order me to go to my room in our home. She has not called yet. I am so annoyed with her that I don't care if they come or not at this point. At least I have a wonderful DH who stands up for me.