I raised her like she was my dd instead of a niece and when she was 16 she decided to finish high-school early and start working but continued living with me. A couple years later she met a man thats 4 years older than her and ended up pregnant with his baby and they moved out on their own. After the baby was born he encouraged her to go back to school and cut back on her work hours (they were financially stable at this point ). Now though they've both been laid off, him because he does construction and business has been too slow this summer, and her because the company she worked for closed in January. They lost their apartment in October because they became unable to pay bills and she's been living with me with her son since. She paid me when she got her taxes back, but now it's come about that she's pregnant again and I don't want her living here. I don't think she should have another baby and I want her out before it gets here. She's been actively trying to find a job, I'll give her that but I don't want her money, I want her to pay me for whatever time she's been here and to get out and she isn't doing it and I don't know how to word it to her and her not hold a grudge for putting them out.