How can I make him miserable? Yea I know you all will say be the bigger person and do nothing but Im tired of doing that. My ex wont pay his child support. He gets 3100 a month in disability. He makes sure he has his weed/drugs but wont pay his cs. The cs can not be garnished because its va and they are federal and cs is a state order. I have fought tooth and nail for years to get something done but get no where. He has a nice home and his bills are paid but refuses to pay his cs. Im on disability and struggle to make ends meet. I need the cs to pay for my sons graduation stuff and my other child wants to play baseball but with out the cs I cant make that happen. I just want to cause him pain and misery as he has caused us.