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How to be a good wife. Most of you are doing it wrong. ETA for the sensitive, and humorless

Anonymous
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HAVE DINNER READY: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal--on time. This is a way to let him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned with his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home, and having a good meal ready is part of the warm welcome that is needed.

PREPARE YOURSELF: Take fifteen minutes to rest so that you will be refreshed when he arrives. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift. Greet him with a smile.

CLEAR AWAY THE CLUTTER: Make one last trip though the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up children's books and toys, papers, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you lift too.

PREPARE THE CHILDREN: If they are small, wash their hands and faces and comb their hair. They are his little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

MINIMIZE ALL NOISE: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise from the washer, dryer, or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.

SOME "DO NOT'S": Don't greet him with problems and complaints. Don't complain if he is late for dinner. Count this as a minor problem compared to what he might have gone through that day.

MAKE HIM COMFORTABLE: Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest that he lie down in the bedroom. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.

LISTEN TO HIM: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.

MAKE THE EVENING HIS: Never complain if he doesn't take you to dinner or to other entertainment. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his need to unwind and relax.



DISCLAIMER: I'm going to go ahead and add that this is clearly not from this generation. The long quote trees about how this isn't the way to have a happy marriage are unnecessary. I'm sure there are a few who can relate to this list, they are the exception not the rule. For the majority if us this does not apply.

I thought some may find this humorous but far too many are not quite understanding it and think I am actually calling you a bad wife, to those I say, your insecurities are showing. Relax, inhale....2....3...4....exhale....2...3....4. And be grateful that pretty much nobody expects the above from you.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:13 PM
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mommaponch
by Gold Member on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:15 PM
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Damnit I just took a shower and now I have to clean all this vomit off myself.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:15 PM
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You are fucking stupid.
Blooming_Lotus
by Platinum Member on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:15 PM
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This came from a 50's home ec. book if I'm not mistaken.
leanntx
by on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:15 PM
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This is a list from the 1950's.

Quoting Anonymous: You are fucking stupid.
mich2.0
by on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:16 PM
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Good thing my husband doesn't want a "good wife" I guess.
TrouserMouse
by on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:16 PM
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That's not the proper way to greet your husband. Good example.

Quoting Anonymous: You are fucking stupid.
jupiter5
by on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:16 PM
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This is from the 50's
TemptingFate
by on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:17 PM
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Oh look, another dude. My husband just laughed and told me to say I'm sorry your wife isn't doing this for you.
wooly
by Knitting Maniac on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:17 PM
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What did you do Op. Dig a book out of the 40's from some dumpster?

Tracylynn100
by Silver Member on Mar. 16, 2014 at 10:17 PM
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It was in Good Housekeeping or something

Quoting leanntx: This is a list from the 1950's.
Quoting Anonymous: You are fucking stupid.


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