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New to the dating scene

Anonymous
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ok so i am newly divorced. i am on a dating site. i will not say which one. 

i made friends with a guy. he is married. we are only friends though. 


he told me about why he is on the site. him and his wife have an open marriage. 

im starting to fall for him. 

we dont talk about sex. we talk about work and our kids and every day life. 


but like i said i am falling hard for him. 


i dont know if i should just go for it or stay away

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:44 PM
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TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:46 PM
I'd stay away

He could be lying about the open marriage, but if he's not could you settle being #2?
firebird78
by Lilly's mom on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:46 PM

stay away

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:47 PM

i do know hes not cuz his wife has actually messaged me asking if i was bi.  lol

i only know its his wife cuz ive seen pics of them together 

idk if i can. i dont really know if i want a relationship so to speak,  i do know i miss sex A LOT!

lol

Quoting TiffanyRose06: I'd stay away He could be lying about the open marriage, but if he's not could you settle being #2?


JackieGirl007
by Ruby Member on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:48 PM

 What? Do you want to share his love with another woman? I wouldn't. I have no desire to be with a guy that can't commit to one girl.

Tuned.Out
by Silver Member on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:49 PM

Has his wife told you they are in an open marriage?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:50 PM
He's either:

1. Lying and the wife doesn't know he's dating.

2. Going to be emotionally unavailable. You'd be recreational only.

If you're fine with either scenario go ahead. Otherwise move on.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:52 PM

LOL open marriage...my ass!  

TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:52 PM
Haha ok so the open marriage seems valid

It just seems like you're setting yourself up to be hurt kwim? Especially since you have strong feelings. It would be different if it was just for the sex

Idk, I couldn't do it. I understand though, after my xh left and was gone awhile I wanted sex and I wanted it right then! Lol


Quoting Anonymous:

i do know hes not cuz his wife has actually messaged me asking if i was bi.  lol

i only know its his wife cuz ive seen pics of them together 

idk if i can. i dont really know if i want a relationship so to speak,  i do know i miss sex A LOT!

lol

Quoting TiffanyRose06: I'd stay away

He could be lying about the open marriage, but if he's not could you settle being #2?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:52 PM

no

but she has messaged me asking me if im bi and interested

Quoting Tuned.Out:

Has his wife told you they are in an open marriage?


Grnyann65
by on Mar. 19, 2014 at 6:53 PM

He's married, stay away. Also, steer clear of the FREE dating sites.

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