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6 months and considering

Anonymous
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I'm considering adoption. I love my son but i'm praying everything takes a turn for the better. I want my son to go to a home where there are two parents wether he have two dads or a mom and dad it doesn't matter.

My dad has let me know what a huge disappointment iam and asked me afterward not to split up my kids. It's heartbreaking that he considers me a disappointment when all i'd like to do is the right thing.

Neither of my parents believe in adoption but i do. Keep in mind please iam pro choice and my parents are pro abortion.

I'm torn between keeping my son and putting him up for adoption. Advice is appreciated, please no bashing
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:05 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:06 PM

There's no such thing as pro abortion

raenydaes
by on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:08 PM
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Sadly there is.  I've met people who do not care what the woman wants and push for abortion, no matter what.

Quoting Anonymous:

There's no such thing as pro abortion


strongforthem
by Platinum Member on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:08 PM
If they are pressuring her to abort instead of choose adoption, they aren't being pro choice, they are being pro abortion.

Quoting Anonymous:

There's no such thing as pro abortion

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:09 PM
Well my parents are i've always been a bit of a daddys girl and like i said my parents are all for abortion. i'm pro choice and btw i asked for advice not bitchiness thanks

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There's no such thing as pro abortion

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:09 PM
If you can take care of him why not do so yourself?
newwifenmom
by Gold Member on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:11 PM

Are you struggling financially?

raenydaes
by on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:11 PM
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Do you mean you're 6 months pregnant?  You already have a child as well?  Sorry, I'm just a little confused.  I think it's wonderful that you're thinking about adoption.  No matter what you've done before, you're trying to figure out what is best for your baby, even if it causes you pain.  That's being a mother!  I wish I could give you a hug right now  <3

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:11 PM
I'll take him :(
EmilysMom2010
by Ruby Member on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:13 PM
Fuck them! Keep your kid. Prove them wrong. And be done with them.
happymomma13
by Platinum Member on Mar. 21, 2014 at 7:13 PM
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Can you add some detail so we can better understand?

How old are you?
Are financially dependent upon your parents?
What might be causing your parents to be so hateful?
Do you have any other family that would be willing to help you?
Where is your son's Dad? Can you get child support from him?


I just have to mention, you obviously chose to keep him for a reason. Don't let that reason, how you REALLY feel and what you REALLY want, be clouded by pressures from others.
Because once you give him up, you will NEVER get him back.


ETA:
I am just now noticing that you are 6 months pregnant. So you don't actually have him yet. Same questions still apply though. (: lol
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