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Mothers Need To Stop Lying To Their Daughters

Anonymous
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Mothers are told by society to tell their daughters that they are beautiful just the way they are.  This is all lies.  Society encourages all women that they need to strive to be a perfect woman that does not exist.  Women are wrapped up in ideal on a daily basis.  The list of things that we do to conform grows longer each day.  Some of these things are:

Color our hair

Change the texture/look of our hair

Wear make-up

Tan

Wear clothing that changes our body (push up bra, Spanx etc)

Wax/Shave/Pluck unwanted hair

Plastic Surgery

Cosmetic Dentistry-including whitening, braces and veneers


Mothers should start from day one and tell thier daughters that they need to conform to society. Teen years would be easier on girls if they knew they should just change themselves to be what society wants them to be.  


Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 24, 2014 at 10:59 AM
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Hanab818
by Ruby Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:01 AM
15 moms liked this
Im glad my mom told me Im beautiful the way I am. Id rather be loved for the REAL me than the me society thinks I need to be.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:01 AM
23 moms liked this
Men are not allowed on cafemom hon.
yummypeaches
by Gold Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:02 AM
1 mom liked this

Is this your attempt at sarcasm? Lol

LoriLou75
by Ruby Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:02 AM
14 moms liked this
I'd rather change society. My dd IS perfect the way she is.
mommy103238
by Mandy on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:03 AM
7 moms liked this
Go fuck yourself ;)
ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:03 AM
1 mom liked this

Eh. See. I'd rather my daughter be one to try and change the world then fit into some cookie cutter life.

Chaos1229
by Silver Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:04 AM
3 moms liked this
I will tell my step daughters they are beautiful just the way they are , because they are . If a person or society feels they aren't that is their loss because they are wonderful people beautiful inside and out.
JC2223
by Gold Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:04 AM

You can't be serious??!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:04 AM
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I don't feel like I HAVE to do any of that stuff. It's more something I enjoy doing. I don't do surgery though.
Raeann11
by Ruby Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 11:04 AM
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I will tell my girls they are beautiful just the way they are. Because they are.

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