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I hate my soon to be dil.

Anonymous
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So my son who is 35 met this woman a few months ago. He told us before the first date that he met his future wife. I will admit I liked her.

Now to why I hate her. They are planning a wedding this summer. They are planning on going to the Bahamas and then just a back yard bbq when they get home. Now he is my only child and has never been married. I was hoping for a big church wedding.

He said he doesnt care about the wedding just that he marries her.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 24, 2014 at 4:57 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 24, 2014 at 4:59 PM
They're adults and it's their decision. Sorry.
Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Mar. 24, 2014 at 4:59 PM
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This is your sons wedding NOT YOURS.  If you let them know how you really feel, be prepared not to be in their life especially after they have kids

Nynnie
by Gold Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 4:59 PM
Aww, I'm sorry. Maybe they want to spend the money on that trip. Maybe you guys could go do something special to celebrate. I know it is adding a person to your family, but it's their day and you can't change that.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Mar. 24, 2014 at 5:00 PM
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Well, that's a legit reason to hate someone.... said no one ever.
morgiefae
by Silver Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 5:00 PM

yup, get over it. if that makes them happy... then that should be what makes you happy.

MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Mar. 24, 2014 at 5:00 PM

 I see why you are upset. It is out of your control.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 24, 2014 at 5:00 PM

troll

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 24, 2014 at 5:00 PM

She hates you too.

It's their day- not yours.

Hanab818
by Ruby Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 5:01 PM
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Its not about the wedding its about the marriage.
MamaJess9
by Platinum Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 5:01 PM
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Nunya bizniss.  It's his wedding so if he doesn't care, you don't get to care.  And it's certainly a very stupid reason to "hate" your DIL, and get your relationship with her off on a bad note just because you wanted to play wedding planner.

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