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sad news. no bashing plz.

Posted by on Mar. 25, 2014 at 9:59 AM
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So I'm home from the hospital. I lost my twins over the weekend at 19 weeks gestation. My beautiful son never drew a breath. My strong little girl lived for 3 minutes before she passed.

I was alone when I lost them . Their father decided last week he doubts their his and didn't want anything to do with them or me til he got a DNA test. He never came to the hospital. He never contact ed me to ask how they were. When I contacted him, he was cruel and mean and made it known that had they survived and he found out they were his he was going to do everything in his power to take them from me. I don't even know why the man hates me all of a sudden. He won't say. Even the day he broke it off with me he acted like we would still be friends and he'd still be there for me.

I am devastated and traumatized by the loss of my babies and even more broken that I am dealing with it alone and he doesn't even care. I have to go to his house sometime this week to give him back my phone and get the rest of my stuff from his house and I don't even want to look at him right now because I am so angry.
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Jessy613
by Diamond Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:00 AM

=( so sorry

PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:01 AM

I'm sorry for your loss. 

allycally
by Platinum Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:01 AM
5 moms liked this
One day at a time...
MrsRussell1025
by Bronze Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:01 AM
I am so very very sorry.
elfling811
by Niki on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:02 AM
I am so sorry *hugs*
Mommyzlovez
by Silver Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:02 AM
4 moms liked this
O' bunny so very sorry just want to hug you and kick his pants...praying! Do you have a church?
jandi3936
by Bronze Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:02 AM
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Screw him. I hope you have friends and family to lean on. I'm so sorry for the loss of your babies.
blondieinva80
by Silver Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:03 AM
I am so sorry. Big hugs and please try and find a good counselor to talk with.
BobKitten13
by Gold Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:03 AM
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Im so sorry for your loss. Have a friend go with you when you go
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:03 AM
Omgoodness I'm so very sorry. ((Hugs))
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