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i think im attracted to women.

Anonymous
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Dh and I have been together 4 years and have two kids. I've always had some bi curiosity but never ventured there. Lately I've been really interested and even turned on by the thought of a woman sexually and I want to experiment. Dh and I have talked about it and he's OK with me experimenting because he says he trusts me and doesn't have a problem with it, but I still don't know...
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 26, 2014 at 2:30 AM
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JackieGirl007
by on Mar. 26, 2014 at 2:32 AM

ok

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 2:33 AM
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I think if you do decide to try it out. I would invite ur hubby. So its not all you and it might ease you into it. It worked for my last bf and I before I met my husband. We only split up because I wanted kids and he did not. So i had to go else where you know.

Quoting Anonymous: Dh and I have been together 4 years and have two kids. I've always had some bi curiosity but never ventured there. Lately I've been really interested and even turned on by the thought of a woman sexually and I want to experiment. Dh and I have talked about it and he's OK with me experimenting because he says he trusts me and doesn't have a problem with it, but I still don't know...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 2:38 AM

I think if you're gay or bi, you'd know as a child. You wouldn't have an epiphany and it wouldn't be an " I think" it would be an "I know".

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 2:39 AM
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so you want to cheat on your Husband in his face? That's disgusting

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 10:40 AM
U don't know unless u try. She has never tried so there for its a think. She's not sayin she woke up the other day and was like o hey I'm gay. She sed she's been bicurious, that means that u think u might. So women r turned on by other women and they r not gay. That's very possible.

Quoting Anonymous:

I think if you're gay or bi, you'd know as a child. You wouldn't have an epiphany and it wouldn't be an " I think" it would be an "I know".

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 10:41 AM
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Don't you think you should have gotten your jollies before you got married?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 10:43 AM
its not cheating if u involve ur husband. than its a threesome

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so you want to cheat on your Husband in his face? That's disgusting

LilyofPhilly
by Platinum Member on Mar. 26, 2014 at 10:48 AM

That's great that your husband is so supportive, but I would tread lightly with the "experimenting". This may be a turn on for him, and that may be why he's encouraging it. Or it could be that he's afraid that you'll cheat if he doesnn't support you.

Can you have sex without a committment from a woman, or with a stranger? How will you handle it emotionally if you get attached? How are you going to divide your energy between your family and potential girlfriends? How is your husband really going to feel when he's sitting at home with your children and you are out on dates?

You can experiment with these feelings in safer ways. Read some lesbian erotica, watch girl on girl porn-real GonG, not the stuff made for men. Talk about it, fantasize together. 

mom_dl6
by on Mar. 26, 2014 at 10:50 AM

I say whatever to each their own !

jjames1990
by on Mar. 26, 2014 at 10:50 AM
I am confused by him saying he trusts you. Because to me that means a spouse trusts that you wont cheat. But you are saying it as he says you can cheat.

Either way, I believe a person has a right to explore their sexuality. But I think it can be very dangerous to do it in a marriage.
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