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I can't believe my 17 year old son said that to me!!!!?

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Last night dh, ds and I were talking about the upcoming prom. We discussed how expensive it is: $100 for ds + another $100 for his date, plus a corsage and tux! Ds said "If I'm spending that kind of money I better get my dick sucked." He has never mentioned anything sexual to me before. I was taken aback. What a weird thing to say in front of your mother!!

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 26, 2014 at 12:59 PM
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blessed107
by Platinum Member on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:09 PM

 I don't even know how I would have reacted towards that, my two son's are grown and don't even say the word lie in front of me.

mommyof7921
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:09 PM

gosh my kids would be embarrassed to even say something like that.

we do not use file language in our house.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:09 PM
Lol sorry that's amusing to me because it isn't my son.

If it was my son, id probably slap him for it. And then laugh.
AnastasiaKorsh
by on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:10 PM
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How tasteless.
I'd be having a discussion with him.
TranquilMind
by Ruby Member on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:10 PM
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 Lol.  "Prudish".  Ok.  Think whatever you like. 

But my sons won't be spouting that crap about their dates even to their friends, much less their parents.  

Yes, I know.  Involved parents know what is going on with their kids 99% of the time, if they just pay attention to the evidence.   

Quoting Coconutty4Hubby:

Not everyone has a 'prudish' life like yours. I think it's funny. 

Yeah, it's crude, but when you take life too seriously, it's not fun anymore. Live, laugh, love.

Quoting TranquilMind:

 Wow.  That's really disgusting.  Who says that to his PARENTS?  Or even thinks that way about a prom date.

Yuck.  I'd be all over that disrespect, seriously.  DECENT guys have not been "saying that for years."

It's true people are more disgusting today, but it cannot be condoned. 

 

o.O....
by Cara on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:10 PM
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He would have been slapped.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:11 PM
Wow, he sounds like such a sweetheart.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:11 PM
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I would have offered to call his date and tell her what he expects in return for his money.
LizzieAnnesMom
by ☆Mrs.Winchester☆ on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:12 PM
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I would be more ashamed at the son i raised.
2pink1blue
by Silver Member on Mar. 26, 2014 at 1:12 PM
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After I got over the inital shock, the two of us would have had a nice long chat about respecting women (including his mother) and how vulgar and disappointing that comment was.  I would not give him the money for a prom "date" unless I felt he was sincere in his desire to take a girl for the right reasons.  I just could not allow him to make any girl feel she owed that to him, especially since it would be MY money. SMDH.  

Sure, he probably didn't "mean it" and "all" the boys might say it but my son will not treat women like that and if he doesn't know that by 17, then DH and I would feel we made great errors in raising him.

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