Help your BIL/SIL over you brother/sister?
brother is a HUGE dick to his wife (was to his first wife as well) My
brother and SIL are on the verge of splitting but my SIL is trying
EVERYTHING to fix this for their daughter (and the baby she's currently 8
weeks pregnant with) My brother has started SLEEPING during their
marriage counseling sessions, like in the office, sleeping while my SIL
and the concealer try to wake him.. anyways. I don't see it lasting long
after the baby is born, and honestly she doesn't either. She has to
force him to help with one child and spend time with her, it's only
gonna get worse when #2 is here. I'm more of a parent to my niece than
my brother. Hell, I'M the one she's wanting there for support when she's
in labor. My brother is just gonna be there to watch my niece.. (sorry,
a TAD off topic)
WELL, DH and I have told her if she EVER decideds to leave my brother (and god i hope she smartens up and does) that she is always welcome in our home until she can get on her feet. I'm just wondering if it's wrong of me to want to help her and the kids over my brother?
I've even told her i will speak on her behalf in court if my brother tries to get custody (doubt he will, but if he does.. there is no way in HELL he should have custody.. or even overnight visits.. heck even day visits are kinda iffy to me)