I had a talk with my younger sister today about her sex life. She's 15 and been with 3 guys (please no name calling ) and I told her that at her age I didn't think she should be having sex at all because she isn't ready for the responsibility that comes with it. She said she is ready and so what if she gets pregnant, she's good with kids. I asked her what about school and omg I could've smacked her (figuratively ) she said "well I thought between you and mom you all could babysit so I could get an education, don't you pay attention to tv, that's how it works when a teen has a baby her family helps." I then explained I worked, that's why my own kids are in daycare from 7-4, so she thinks she can earn enough allowance for that because in her opinion daycare isn't that expensive and when I told her how much I pay weekly her eyes got big and she ran out of answers for that.
The next discussion was me asking her why she felt the need to sleep with guys so much and she said "because guys like me and I don't wanna be single in high-school like you were and guys don't want you if you won't have sex with them" I then told her guys only want you for sex if they see you're that easy and they don't stick around or want you for a relationship just your body. She told me than guys won't want me either because I have sex more than she does she's sure because I'm married so what's the difference between having sex every day with one and every weekend with different ones, it's just as much sex.
My mother has clearly gone wrong somewhere.