pregnant and his wife wants me to have an abortion (updated)
I was seeing this guy I met for a few months and things got steamy and I ended up pregnant. Long story short when I told him I was pregnant was when he informed me he was married. I'm 10 weeks. He told his wife and she messaged me telling me I need to have an abortion and forget her dh existed.
So after all the hateful responses calling me a dumb whore, bashing me for not knowing he was married, etc. I decided to do some investigsting and checking on things like everyone said I should have done in the first place. Anyway, it turns out it they got married February 5th, 2014. I've been pregnant longer than they've been married, they were only dating just like him and I were when I got pregnant. I asked his sister why she didn't tell me about him being married and she told me that she didn't know until after the last time I had stayed over at his brother's with him. She did admit that she knew he was seeing other women, but she didn't know he was planning to marry or had married anyone.
His wife also called me again today. She wanted to know how long we'd been seeing each other, how serious it was, when I got pregnant, and if he knew I was pregnant when they got married, which he did not because I didn't find out until towards the end of Feb.