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pregnant and his wife wants me to have an abortion (updated)

Anonymous
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I was seeing this guy I met for a few months and things got steamy and I ended up pregnant. Long story short when I told him I was pregnant was when he informed me he was married. I'm 10 weeks. He told his wife and she messaged me telling me I need to have an abortion and forget her dh existed.

Update

So after all the hateful responses calling me a dumb whore, bashing me for not knowing he was married, etc. I decided to do some investigsting and checking on things like everyone said I should have done in the first place. Anyway, it turns out it they got married February 5th, 2014. I've been pregnant longer than they've been married, they were only dating just like him and I were when I got pregnant. I asked his sister why she didn't tell me about him being married and she told me that she didn't know until after the last time I had stayed over at his brother's with him. She did admit that she knew he was seeing other women, but she didn't know he was planning to marry or had married anyone.

His wife also called me again today. She wanted to know how long we'd been seeing each other, how serious it was, when I got pregnant, and if he knew I was pregnant when they got married, which he did not because I didn't find out until towards the end of Feb.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:18 AM
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BrownEyedGirl86
by Silver Member on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:19 AM
You didn't know he was married??
BIMOM21
by Andi on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:20 AM
Bump for later.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:20 AM
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Not before I got pregnant.

Quoting BrownEyedGirl86: You didn't know he was married??
Sparklepants747
by Queen Annie on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:21 AM
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You should have an abortion and then start dating SINGLE men while you use birth control.

BeAmour
by Tonya on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:21 AM
Uh oh
Bleacher-mom
by Gold Member on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:22 AM
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Wow! Just wow!
lmh88
by on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:23 AM
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Don't let anyone tell you that you need to get an abortion. Whatever decision you make will affect you the rest of your life...think carefully and do what's best for you and that baby.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:23 AM
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I thought he was single and I use condoms, it broke.

Quoting Sparklepants747:

You should have an abortion and then start dating SINGLE men while you use birth control.

BrownEyedGirl86
by Silver Member on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:23 AM
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Well you clearly do what you want with the pregnancy. But leave the man alone romantically.

Quoting Anonymous: Not before I got pregnant.

Quoting BrownEyedGirl86: You didn't know he was married??
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 28, 2014 at 5:24 AM
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Riiiiiight

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