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I refuse to have sex

Anonymous
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I told DH that he has two choices.  He can either live without it or we can divorce so he can get it elsewhere.  I am done.  I have no interest because he pushed me into it every night for 16 years through 5 pregnancies, exhaustion from from taking care of children all day and working nights, when I was sick or on my period...etc.  I just hate even the thought of it and want it to end.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:14 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:15 AM
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Why the hell did you let him do that to you??

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:16 AM
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Pushed? You could have stood up for yourself and prevented some of this resentment.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:16 AM
You need help, why didn't you put a stop to it before? He shouldn't have forced you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:17 AM
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 Sex is important in a marriage. He will probably cheat on you continuously or leave you.

MilkLover0203
by on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:17 AM
Oh, please.
BrittSam2011
by Ruby Member on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:17 AM

Telling him no or getting help sooner probably would have been a better idea.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:18 AM
You should have left as soon as he started pushing you into it. What he did was wrong, but I can't imagine staying in a sexless relationship. Good luck!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:19 AM
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He'd get angry and make my life hell.  That's why.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why the hell did you let him do that to you??


Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:19 AM

Why won't you just leave him then?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 30, 2014 at 2:19 AM


Quoting Anonymous: Pushed? You could have stood up for yourself and prevented some of this resentment.


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