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Feeling trapped

Posted by on Mar. 30, 2014 at 8:54 PM
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Ok so I am new to this group and needing some advice
I have been married a little over 4 years and my husband has cheated on me throughout our marriage, evrytime we get into an arguement no matter how angry I am or how much I have convinced myself in my head that I am finally going to leave him he does something or says something to make me forgive him and it just seems to be one vicious cycle, we have 2 children together and I am a little bit over a month before I am due with our next child I dont like the state that I am I would have no help other than a little bit financially from the government but if I was to go back to my hometown it would be a 12 hr drive and Idont think the courts would allow that long of a distance move when it comes to custody, I have some new proof that he has been cheating on me once again but I just dont know what to do, I feel really trapped and I dont want to be here
any advice from u ladies on what to do

UPDATE*****
the new proof was he was writing this one chick that lives with his step brother and their roommates (one who is an on and off boyfriend of hers )and they were talking about hooking up but they never said they did ...but it still hurts and I feel disrespected either way
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Mar. 30, 2014 at 8:55 PM
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First, stop having sex and making babies with a douchebag cheater...

Second, talk to a lawyer about your options.
sunshine_5
by on Mar. 31, 2014 at 4:35 PM
Quoting Anonymous: First, stop having sex and making babies with a douchebag cheater...

Second, talk to a lawyer about your options.

I wish it was that easy but he always makes it hard in the end,
As for the lawyer part I wouldnt even know how to start finding one

graybealgirl
by Platinum Member on Mar. 31, 2014 at 4:38 PM
Call legal aid and get free advice
sunshine_5
by on Apr. 18, 2014 at 2:52 PM
Quoting graybealgirl: Call legal aid and get free advice

U mean like looking up a lawyer?
sunshine_5
by on Apr. 18, 2014 at 2:58 PM
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UPDATE☆☆☆Well I went thru his phone today cause I was finally able to see his code to unlock it
turns out hes been doin it with an ex of his since they were in H.S and probably not using protection (because of a text she wrote ),I dont have much time left till I have this baby so I'm going to avoid as much as possible giving him any and then I'm headed back home as a family visit and work out all the legal crap from afar cause thats the only way I see me being able to leave this loser
lovebug8526
by Bronze Member on Apr. 18, 2014 at 3:03 PM
Have the baby go to where you want to go then file for custdy
sunshine_5
by on Apr. 18, 2014 at 4:15 PM
Exactly!! Thats what I was thinking cause I'm just so over it and am done

Quoting lovebug8526: Have the baby go to where you want to go then file for custdy
graybealgirl
by Platinum Member on Apr. 18, 2014 at 6:01 PM
No legal aide gives free advice

Quoting sunshine_5:
Quoting graybealgirl: Call legal aid and get free advice

U mean like looking up a lawyer?
sunshine_5
by on Apr. 18, 2014 at 6:58 PM
Idk how to get in touch with them


Quoting graybealgirl: No legal aide gives free advice

Quoting sunshine_5:
Quoting graybealgirl: Call legal aid and get free advice

U mean like looking up a lawyer?
graybealgirl
by Platinum Member on Apr. 18, 2014 at 7:02 PM
Call 18003733411. It asks business or government or residential. Say business. Give them your city and state. Then.say legal aide and it'll give you the num

Quoting sunshine_5: Idk how to get in touch with them


Quoting graybealgirl: No legal aide gives free advice

Quoting sunshine_5:
Quoting graybealgirl: Call legal aid and get free advice

U mean like looking up a lawyer?
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