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my april fools prank to df turned disastrous QUESTION ADDED...ETA

Anonymous
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I told him that I was leaving to Texas to reconcile with an ex & that our infant son was staying with him.

At first he was very quiet & when I started to laugh & yelled April fools he slapped me and told me never to do anything like that. He also said that he now doesn't trust me and called me a bitch.

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Since so many of you are saying that I deserved to be slapped for a shitty joke, how many of you think the same applies if it really were true that I cheated? What if he cheated? Is violence still acceptable? Is it ok to go slapping & leaving handprints on people you love when they do something stupid?

I admit that was a shitty joke. I still don't believe I deserved to get hit. If the tables were turned, I can honestly say that yes I would be mad BUT I wouldn't hit him. Especially not with my baby sleeping within arms reach of me.

ETA
Some of you women are not getting the point of this post. YES I now understand that I fucked up with that horrible "joke". YES I understand that it was cruel to do that to the man I loved. YES I understand I don't deserve to be trusted again. I get that. I TOO FUCKED UP. However, if he reacts so violently to a joke ( because my tone was not serious at all) I can't imagine how he will react to other obstacles we might have in the future. He is a ticking time bomb. It scares me because he was never violent before. Ever. Again, I understand that I FUCKED UP.

P.S
I didn't tell him I wa s cheating. This is verbatim...."hey I'm moving to Texas to get back with Trent. You're staying with the baby."
My tone was NOT SERIOUS whatsoever.





Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:43 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:44 PM
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Yeah, that was dumb of you. I wouldn't trust you either.

What you did was emotional abuse and what he did was physical abuse. So who is more in the wrong here? You both used abusive tactics.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:45 PM
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I can't believe he can't take a fucking joke
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:45 PM

sounds like he has some issues. 

Heisenberg
by on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:45 PM
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uh huh

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:45 PM
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Um yeah, that's a shitty thing to say to your husband
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:45 PM
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 thats what u get 4 being a bitch

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:45 PM
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He never should have slapped me

Quoting Anonymous: Yeah, that was dumb of you. I wouldn't trust you either.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:46 PM
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Hitting isn't ok. Ever.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:46 PM
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Slapping you? Sounds like you need to leave anyway.
nazgor
by Ruby Member on Apr. 1, 2014 at 4:46 PM
meh
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