my april fools prank to df turned disastrous QUESTION ADDED...ETA
At first he was very quiet & when I started to laugh & yelled April fools he slapped me and told me never to do anything like that. He also said that he now doesn't trust me and called me a bitch.
Since so many of you are saying that I deserved to be slapped for a shitty joke, how many of you think the same applies if it really were true that I cheated? What if he cheated? Is violence still acceptable? Is it ok to go slapping & leaving handprints on people you love when they do something stupid?
I admit that was a shitty joke. I still don't believe I deserved to get hit. If the tables were turned, I can honestly say that yes I would be mad BUT I wouldn't hit him. Especially not with my baby sleeping within arms reach of me.
Some of you women are not getting the point of this post. YES I now understand that I fucked up with that horrible "joke". YES I understand that it was cruel to do that to the man I loved. YES I understand I don't deserve to be trusted again. I get that. I TOO FUCKED UP. However, if he reacts so violently to a joke ( because my tone was not serious at all) I can't imagine how he will react to other obstacles we might have in the future. He is a ticking time bomb. It scares me because he was never violent before. Ever. Again, I understand that I FUCKED UP.
I didn't tell him I wa s cheating. This is verbatim...."hey I'm moving to Texas to get back with Trent. You're staying with the baby."
My tone was NOT SERIOUS whatsoever.