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He told me he would leave me if...

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My fiancé told me he would leave me if I didn't lose weight. My son is now 18 months old and I haven't ever lost the weight I gained in pregnancy. I work out 5-6 days a week. I eat relatively healthy, but it's hard because he won't eat healthy and expects me to cook him a "normal" meal and then fix something healthy for myself. I think he is being an asshole, have your men ever told you this?!
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:53 PM
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Diamepphyre
by Ruby Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:55 PM

Exactly.  He's being an ass. 

Quoting Anonymous: My fiancé told me he would leave me if I didn't lose weight. My son is now 18 months old and I haven't ever lost the weight I gained in pregnancy. I work out 5-6 days a week. I eat relatively healthy, but it's hard because he won't eat healthy and expects me to cook him a "normal" meal and then fix something healthy for myself. I think he is being an asshole, have your men ever told you this?!


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Lilith23
by Platinum Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:55 PM
No.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:55 PM
My DH isn't a dick, so no.
An0nym0use
by Rock Lobster on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:55 PM
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Nope. And I know that if he expected me to lose weight, he would do it with me.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:56 PM
How much did you weigh and how much do you weigh now?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:56 PM
How much weight? Just curious.
suzanneyea
by on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:56 PM

No, I lost the baby weight right away, both times.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:57 PM
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In your situation I'd fix the meal I needed and he could just deal. But then again, if he told me some extreme BS like that he would be fixing his own meals in his own place because I'd be done with him. That's deeply disrespectful, and it would be a dealbreaker for me, sorry. 

jennifertaylorh
by Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:57 PM
6 moms liked this

Your an idiot.

Quoting Anonymous:

Eh, lose the weight.  No one wants to get with someone and then have them drastically chance in a bad way and stay with them.  Tell him fix his own food and you eat a salad. 


kelbel7
by Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:58 PM

Hell no! I gained a lot of weight with my pregnancies and he loves me just the same. He does want me to lose weight so that I'm healthier and that is understandable. I really do need to lose weight!

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