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He told me he would leave me if...

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My fiancΓ© told me he would leave me if I didn't lose weight. My son is now 18 months old and I haven't ever lost the weight I gained in pregnancy. I work out 5-6 days a week. I eat relatively healthy, but it's hard because he won't eat healthy and expects me to cook him a "normal" meal and then fix something healthy for myself. I think he is being an asshole, have your men ever told you this?!
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 2, 2014 at 6:53 PM
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polkaspots
by Ruby Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:04 PM
I'd leave my husband if he ever said that to me. Now, if you're completely neglecting yourself I understand him trying to talk to you about your weight, but according to you that's not the case.
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ivy801
by Gold Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:04 PM
Hell no, I would wave at him goodbye as I eat some Rocky Road, dropping him after a demand like that with no support would be a big drop of a useless pos.
Kyndall30
by Gold Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:05 PM
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Please don't allow your fiance to become your husband. He's a completely controlling dickhead.
USMCWifey2011
by Silver Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:05 PM
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No my husband respects me FAR to much to say that.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:05 PM
No!but then again i married a real man!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:05 PM
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Fuck no.
Zombie_Mombie
by on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:05 PM
I gained 70lbs when I was pregnant. Husband says omg you are so beautiful today! So yeah your husband is a douche.
jessecutez2
by Gold Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:05 PM
This!
I gained alot of weight with my pregnancies. He understands and loves me no matter what. If your dh cant be like that, maybe its better he does leave.

Quoting thetrollcat:

no I didnt marry an asshole

KaciSmith13
by on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:06 PM
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Time for him to leave. If you continue to let him treat you this way then you are an idiot.

mysticatgal
by Silver Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 7:06 PM
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I wouldn't marry him. He won't "improve" when you're married
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