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ideal ages (sort of a s/o)

Posted by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:23 AM
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A lot of posts ask about ages when you lost your virginity, age whe you moved in with your so, age when you got married, age when you had your first child, etc. and a lot of different opinions and answers are out thre about what is "too young" or "too old" the "right" order etc.


So in your opinion what is a good age (maybe a range of 1-2 years) to (not really in any order):

lose virginity:

live together:

get married:

have a child:

Like when would you be ok with these things for yourself or your child? (and does the order matter?)

by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:23 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:23 AM
Never for all of them.
Mamitamaria
by Silver Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:24 AM

lose virginity: 15-17

live together: 19-20

get married: 23-25

have a child: 23-25


I think the order should be like it is above (except I don't care if the child comes before or after marriage)

PoisonEyeV
by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:24 AM

Age really has nothing to do with any of those.

Mamitamaria
by Silver Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:25 AM

LOL--keep 'em at home dependent on mommy ;-)?

or just really don't give a fuck?

Quoting Anonymous: Never for all of them.


Mamitamaria
by Silver Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:26 AM

I know it is more about maturity...but people still tend to have opinions about "too early" or "too late" so I am curious what is the "just right" time in peoples opinions. This isn't about right or wrong it is about people's opinions

Quoting PoisonEyeV:

Age really has nothing to do with any of those.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:27 AM
18+

Quoting Mamitamaria:

A lot of posts ask about ages when you lost your virginity, age whe you moved in with your so, age when you got married, age when you had your first child, etc. and a lot of different opinions and answers are out thre about what is "too young" or "too old" the "right" order etc.

So in your opinion what is a good age (maybe a range of 1-2 years) to (not really in any order):

lose virginity:

live together:

get married:

have a child:

Like when would you be ok with these things for yourself or your child? (and does the order matter?)

TwoMomsAndBabyM
by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:27 AM

lose virginity: This is a sore subject because I lost mine WAY to early. I would say whenever you are completely aware of your options and the possible consequences.

live together: When you are independent and secure in your relation ship.

get married: When you are independent and secure in your relationship.

have a child: Whenever you are established and secure. I want my DD to be well out of her teens before this happens.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:27 AM
Yea 10 year olds should have sex

Quoting PoisonEyeV:

Age really has nothing to do with any of those.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:27 AM
Lol I want them to stay with me foreverrrrrr!!!!

Lol no I really don't.


Okay, yes I do.

Quoting Mamitamaria:

LOL--keep 'em at home dependent on mommy ;-)?

or just really don't give a fuck?

Quoting Anonymous: Never for all of them.

PoisonEyeV
by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 8:28 AM

No shit sherlock

Quoting Anonymous: Yea 10 year olds should have sex
Quoting PoisonEyeV:

Age really has nothing to do with any of those.


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