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is this fair to you?

Anonymous
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My ex is going to a family party that is three hours away he wants me to drive our kids down there to the party which is three hours down and wants me to drive them back three hours. That is six hours total.

I told him I have no problem him taking the girls to the party but if he wants them for the party I told him I was willing to meet him halfway there on the ride down and halfway back picking up the girls. He said he will not agree to that and wants me to do all the driving so looks like the girls won't be going. Am I being unfair? 

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:02 PM
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MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:03 PM
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I would not be doing that. He should be driving the kids to the party.
EmilysMom2010
by Ruby Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:04 PM
That's more than fair.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:04 PM

I am more than willing to meet him half way both ways. 

Quoting MrsDavidB25: I would not be doing that. He should be driving the kids to the party.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:05 PM
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Nope, he wants them to attend something he needs to make arrangements for it. You're more fair than I would be.

Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:05 PM
No, I wouldn't do that either.
nurbabe82
by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:07 PM

 Umm hell no lol. If he wants them to go he needs to drive them the entire way and I might be willing to drive half way down to get them. But the driving the kids is on him.

southern.momof2
by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:07 PM
I think your way is fair.
KenneMaw
by Ruby Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:08 PM
I like your suggestion. Why won't he meet you halfway??
luckysevenwow
by Emerald Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:08 PM

Huh, I wouldn't do it for my family. I wouldn't do it for my ex's but I hate driving so there you go lol

LilysMama719
by Emmy on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:08 PM
You're being fair, not him.
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