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ex making demands!!!

Anonymous
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My ex has moved 2 1/2 hours away he said he will not be taking visits anymore because he doesn't feel like driving up here for his visits.

I tried compromising and told him I will drive half way. That still was not good enough for him. What do you think? Opinions? 

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:43 PM
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bcauseimthemom
by imjenndoe on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:44 PM
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His loss.

TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:44 PM
Dont force it, obviously he doesn't care
cinnamonkiti
by Platinum Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:45 PM

So his demand is that you take the kid(s) to visit him???

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:45 PM
Make sure you get it in writing. He may take you to court and/or try to accuse you of keeping his kid from him. Keep the proof that you offered to meet halfway.
Keep trying every time it's his visitation time. Keep proof (copies) of every contact.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:46 PM
This sounds like a spinoff of a spinoff of a spinoff.
scold-01
by Gold Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:47 PM

what are his court ordered visitations??

blue-heart
by Ruby Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:47 PM
His loss. He obviously doesn't care about his kids. Don't force it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:51 PM

He demands that I drive the 2 1/2 hours each way to drop and pick the kids up. If not he refuses to take his visits. The judge ordered he is responsible all the transportation. But I did offer that I would meet half way. 

Quoting cinnamonkiti:

So his demand is that you take the kid(s) to visit him???


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:51 PM

every other weekend Friday-Sunday

Quoting scold-01:

what are his court ordered visitations??


cinnamonkiti
by Platinum Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 12:53 PM

Ok, well then if he is refusing to do what he is court ordered to do, then he is in contempt of court, and you can take him back in front of the judge.

Quoting Anonymous:

He demands that I drive the 2 1/2 hours each way to drop and pick the kids up. If not he refuses to take his visits. The judge ordered he is responsible all the transportation. But I did offer that I would meet half way. 

Quoting cinnamonkiti:

So his demand is that you take the kid(s) to visit him???



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