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DH has another kid I knew nothing about

Anonymous
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Last night DH told his oldest dd that she has another little sister. I knew nothing about this either. She's 9 years old, so it was before we even starter dating but idk how to feel about this...shocked...angry...I just went to my car and cried this morning. Idk what to do.

ETA. Sorry forgot to add what happened. DH slept with a married woman (he didn't know at the time) who wanted a baby but her husband had issues. The husband thinks it's his daughter and has raised her as his own.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:04 PM
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PoisonEyeV
by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:04 PM

Is he involved with this child?

owl0210
by Sapphire Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:04 PM
He told his daughter before he told you???
jkleinman
by Ruby Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:05 PM
I'm guessing he has nothing to do with this child?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:05 PM

Did he know or was he just made aware?

Jessy613
by Diamond Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:05 PM

i'm speechless

SuchAKillJoy
by Gold Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:05 PM
No offense but, and? I have a little half sister I knew nothing about until I was about 19. I most likely have others floating around out there too. Its not like its uncommon.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:06 PM
? Has he always known? And just never mentioned it? This is crazy... why would he not tell you that while you were dating?
Sparklepants747
by Queen Annie on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:06 PM

Why did he tell her before you? 

AZHOTMOM
by on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:07 PM

Why do you not know about his children? How long have you been together?

AnHpuresugar
by Emerald Member on Apr. 3, 2014 at 2:07 PM
He didn't tell you first? How long have you been married? How old is your daughter? How old is this child?
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