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Is YOUR S.O Afraid

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Of losing you?

Dh told me today when we were sitting on the couch together after a small misunderstanding and he just hugged me and said ..

"What am I going to do if I ever lose you? I can't raise these babies alone, without you, I would be so lost. Would if I lose you AND this baby? I don't think I can live with that pain forever."

It hurt to hear that and scared me. I believe in life after death so I would Definitely haunt him lol

I understood his fear though, every pregnancy we've had I've ended up in the hospital or had surgery done. Our labor and deliveries have been a bit complicated but baby and me have aleays come out fine. So everything that goes on he gets scared for us (me&baby).

I don't know. I just hope and will help him find strength and keep doing as I do. I tell him everything that the kids need, like, don't like, allergies and all the right meds to give them that I found work. Just prepare him for the unpredictable.

We're not immortal, nobody lives forever and when the time does come for me to go try your best and be strong I'll see them all again just not on earth.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2014 at 6:20 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2014 at 6:24 PM
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MixedCooke
by Platinum Member on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:32 AM

I have never asked

noelgray
by Gold Member on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:33 AM

We've never talked about it. 

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:33 AM
I'm not sure but I'm afraid of losing everyone. I worry about it every day. :(
thetrollcat
by Meow on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:34 AM
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I told mine not to worry I have life insurance out on all of us.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:43 AM
This is something I definitely need to get done after I go and get a job when this baby is ready. I have no insurance on myself or my kids. We haven't even finished our discussion on who will be Guardians for our kids if we pass suddenly. It was just a moment he let me in on a big fear of losing me he has. Just out of normal conversation for me.

Quoting thetrollcat:

I told mine not to worry I have life insurance out on all of us.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:44 AM
I never think about it but I do need to start preparing for it because I have nothing in line.

Quoting Anonymous: I'm not sure but I'm afraid of losing everyone. I worry about it every day. :(
eykelley
by Gold Member on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:45 AM
My dh hates talking about losing me. He literally breaks down. :*(
piperhalliwell1
by Silver Member on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:46 AM
not that I know of, but we dont talk about stuff like that
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2014 at 1:46 AM
Us either . It was totally out of left field today. Motivated me to get on the horse though and make sure our kids are financially good from both parents not just Dh.

Quoting noelgray:

We've never talked about it. 

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