I miss my niece and nephew immensly; and even though my sis is arrogant and selfishly caused their death than took her own life I miss her too.
My niece and nephew were killed in a car accident and my sister was driving. She was arrogant and selfish enough to think that because she had a huge Yukon and had her kids in good car seats she could drive however she wanted with no regards to their safety or that of others on the road. She drove my kids once and they told me she was speeding and cutting people off and after I heard how she have driving I never let them ride with her again. I also told her if she thought the size was going to keep them safe she was kidding herself as SUVs are built with truck quality which is lower than car quality on cheap frames and that cheap quality along with her reckless driving was what ultimately killed my niece and nephew.
My confession is that shortely before she killed herself we got into an argument and after some other arguing I told her that perhaps her kids (niece and nephew) dying were her fault (which it was) and that perhaps it was karma for her selfishness and lack of care for others in choicing to drive that cheaply built tank and not caring if she killed someone else and not thinking about others. But then again it's true so I shouldn't feel bad for speaking the truth.
Update: Are some of you reacting this way to my post because you drive large vehicles in this manner? If you do please don't let my nieces,nephews and sisters deaths be in vain and learn something from this.
Update 2: For those of you blaming me, my sister made the choice. She also had other problems such as that her and her husband overspend on things they couldn't afford to try to impress others and than had lots of fights about finances and that was only compounded after the accident. Also for those who want a source for my arguments see Keith Brasher's High and Mighty (among many other sources).