my boyfriend wanna move out but wanna still be in a relationship
My boyfriend of 7 years just informed me he's getting his own apartment soon. We haven't had any recent problems that I can think of. He is disabled and applied for housing years ago (when we had problems) they just got back to him. We have 2 kids together. I had 2 other kids before we got together. We live in a 3 bedroom apartment. Just moved in it in January after I had my our baby girl. He claims he wanna move so we will have more room. He wants to take our oldest child (a boy) to live with him. I'm just trying to understand what's the real reason behind this. He say it's no other women and he still wants to be with me. We haven't slept in the same bed since we moved to our new place. We occasionally have sex when he wants it. He does it and afterwards sleeps on the couch. I know in the past hes called me fat. I just got him a car with my income tax money to help him to find a job. He got a job now I hardly see him. He says he's working all the time. He doesn't like helping me discipline or raise my older boys I have in a past relationship. He always say call their dad whenever things go wrong with them or like something simple like taking them to get a hair cut. He knows my ex doesn't want to be there for my older boys. I'm just hurting inside because I wasted so many years. I feel used!