Huge pet peeve of mine is when dh asks my permission. I know he has geek group on Fridays, a simple, "just reminding you my gaming group is tonight" is more than sufficient. I can let him know if we have a scheduling conflict, but every week he asks for permission. I don't mind that he goes, I'm glad he has a social outlet. he deserves to go have fun, but damn he is a grown man. I love that he keeps me in the loop on what he's doing but he does not need my permission.