The invite didn't say kid free and the invite was addressed only to me so when I RSVP I asked about the kids. The Bride said the kids were welcome, and that my kids would have fun with her cousins. She didn't mention anything about a sitter though.
Every wedding I've been to has had a sitter for young kids during the ceremony. Because in reality who expects a 2 year old to sit quietly for over an hour... I know there is no way my 1 & 2 year olds can sit still during the ceremony and being that it is outdoes will make it worse.
Well I was talking to my mom about it and she wants to keep the kids. But my 1 year old has never been away from me.
I was thinking about going to just the reception. But is that really rude?