His first wife and him divorced 14 years ago and they have a 13 year old daughter together.
Here is where you will all hate me, and sometimes i hate myself for it.
BM travels a lot for her work and sd stays with us when she's gone.
I can't help but feel a little resentment towards sd, she doesn't look like dh at all, she is the spinning image of her mother and i hate it. I sometimes can't stand looking at her because it's a reminder of bm, she acts and talks and thinks like her mom and dh loves her so much, sometimes i make sure sd is out of the house, i give her a lot of money to go hang out with friends so dh can spend time with our newborn because i can't take it when he's all lovey adoring in front of her.
Worst is that BM is an actually really nice person, she's the kind of girl everybody likes but i just can't help but hate the both of them.
Sometimes i just wish she never existed so my son could be his first child and that sd wouldn't take so much of our time and money because ooh his daughter has to go to private school, she has to spend 300 dollars on summer clothes, and hey! Let's spend 2000 dollars for her to go to Italy with bm so she can see different countries and cultures.
It gets me so mad but i have to act like I'm ok with it because i don't want him to think I'm mean.
Is it really horrible to just wish that your husband didn't have other children?