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He blames ME!!!

Anonymous
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For getting pregnant. IMO we're both at fault. I was tracking cycles and TOLD him I was supposed to be ovulating. He comes back with we'll be okay with condoms and proceeds to tease me until I give in.

Granted I should have stuck to my guns and continued to say no, but am I really solely at fault when I told him it was the danger zone?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:28 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:35 PM
Bump! Am I right? Are we both at fault?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:36 PM
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Unless you're asexual, you're both "at fault" for pregnancy.
quinnsmom715
by Donna on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:36 PM

anytime you have sex you risk pregnancy..

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:38 PM
He's basically saying that I wouldn't take no for an answer and didn't care if I got pregnant.

I already HAVE three kids, I was in no hurry to haw more. So yeah, don't think it's all my fault, we BOTH screwed up.

Quoting Anonymous: Unless you're asexual, you're both "at fault" for pregnancy.
AubreyRed
by on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:38 PM
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 What grade are you in?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:39 PM
I know that. Condoms aren't 100% effective. But yeah apparently I am solely to blame :-( I want to kill him for that remark.

Quoting quinnsmom715:

anytime you have sex you risk pregnancy..

jupiter5
by Gold Member on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:39 PM
I blame my hubby, even though I know it's both our faults...
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:40 PM
I'm 25. Fully aware that we both screwed up and handling it. He's 34 and passing the blame onto me.

Quoting AubreyRed:

 What grade are you in?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2014 at 9:42 PM
Lol don't give me ideas. Cause I'm mad enough to turn that stupidity around on him.

We screwed up. Time to admit it, handle it, and move on.

Quoting jupiter5: I blame my hubby, even though I know it's both our faults...
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2014 at 10:59 PM
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If it's anyone's fault, it's his. I mean, you were just doing the same thing you do every month!

Hell, you'd been ovulating roughly every month for more than a decade. He's the one that came along and messed up your perfect ovulate-without-getting-pregnant streak.

So yah. Tell him you were just doing what you always do. If he can't control his little soldiers, he's not fit to command the platoon.
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