stop bitching! Look at me! I am 112 pounds lighter then I was this time last year... I get told all the time by people who are even just a little bit heavier than me that I need to eat and stop trying to lose weight, and that I look gross... -.- I'm not even "skinny". I'm average. You will not see my ass in a swim suit. If you're far lose freaking weight. Most times it's not that people are insulting you, it's that you feel like people are "looking" at you and "thinking nasty thoughts"... The reality of it is so what it they are. People look at each other and think nasty thoughts about lots of stuff... Not just weight. Stop being insecure.